3 November 2014

Making The Right Changes: Don't Use Words That You Will Regret Later

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I never understood why people see a disrespectful man and call him a "son of a bitch." Whenever someone makes that comment, they are essentially calling this man's mother a bitch as if this grown man is not responsible for his own actions. 

You're giving this man the power to believe he is not accountable for his behavior because you're telling him that his mother is to blame. How can we blame his mother for his behavior if we do not know anything about her? Why is the man given the benefit of the doubt when he has simply proven to us that his character is flawed? 

It is true that a man comes from his mother's womb but we are all responsible for our own actions as an adult. You can't blame others for your behavior. There are many men who have grown up without a father but do they all end up living the same life? No. A big reason is because their perception of life is not the same. 

What you go through does not determine how you live your life, it's your perception of your situations. If you have the mindset of what you want to accomplish, your perception will lead you to your accomplishments. 

I never hear anyone call a woman a "daughter of a bitch." Why doesn't the woman ever get the benefit of the doubt? Do we only consider women to be responsible for their own actions? If anyone is able to think of a reason, I would love to hear it.

Let's burry the phrase, "son of a bitch." Whenever we feel that a man is out of line, leave your frustration with him. For you are truly angry with him and not his mother because you probably have no idea who his mother is.



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